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Iceaxe · Joined: 07 Mar 2005 Posts: 7807 Location: Local Bordello

My feelings on found money.........

It's hard to go wrong with strippers and Tequila!

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JP · Joined: 04 Jan 2007 Posts: 5894 Location: Not Sure

Iceaxe wrote: My feelings on found money.........

It's hard to go wrong with strippers and Tequila!

:2thumbs:
:roflol: :roflol: :roflol:

denaliguide · Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 684 Location: new zealand/alaska

tell the wife? what, are you NUTS?

i'm in agreement with ice. strippers and tequila. :2thumbs:

davis_b_1 · Joined: 04 Feb 2006 Posts: 1549 Location: On www.bogley.com

I vote for telling the wife, unless you put it in the rainy day fund.

kris · Joined: 02 Feb 2007 Posts: 83

Why not keep an honest relationship, not a shady one. Just tell her whats up, and you would like to stash it.

Sombeech · Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 12672 Location: The Rubbish Bin

When I stink, sometimes I blame it on my little boy. Some secrets are best kept secret.

DiscGo · Joined: 07 Nov 2006 Posts: 4053

'Secret secrets are no fun. Secret secrets hurt someone."

JP · Joined: 04 Jan 2007 Posts: 5894 Location: Not Sure

DiscGo wrote: 'Secret secrets are no fun. Secret secrets hurt someone."
Right, that's why those secrets are secret :twisted: :lol8: :lol8: :lol8:

Cirrus2000 · Joined: 26 Mar 2006 Posts: 1341

Tell her about it, and if all is as it should be, she'll support you getting what you want. If things are paid up, and the relationship is good, then why not? If things aren't good, then hiding a $300 bonus check probably isn't the first sign of trouble, and it definitely won't be the last. So unless you actually do want to spend it on strippers and tequila (should provide a couple hours of good entertainment...), then share the news with your wife. (Coming up on 22 years for us, and honesty really is - almost invariably - the best policy.)

sparker1 · Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 5:05 am Post subject:

Forty-five years of experience has taught me one thing: Don't try to advise others on matters of love and marriage. You're on your own.

DiscGo · Joined: 07 Nov 2006 Posts: 4053

DiscGo wrote: 'Secret secrets are no fun. Secret secrets hurt someone."

JP- I don't know if you watch the office, but this is a quote from a stripper on the Office. I just thought I would clarify less people believe that I speak like that.

TreeHugger · Joined: 02 Aug 2005 Posts: 1069

fourtycal wrote: Ih8grvty wrote:
Besides, if you have a good relationship with your wife, no reason to shit on her and not tell her.
I tell mine everything, I dont keep secrets from her and she doesnt keep any from me.
a good relationship is started on trust, if you cant trust each other then what the hell is the point of being together?
You can think Im whipped if ya like, I prefer to think I have a good relationship with my wife.

You don't have to share every little detail to trust each other. I don't even know where my wife works (some grade school?) let alone what she does every minute or how much she makes and I don't need to know because I trust her. She don't know how much money I make or have in the bank and I don't know how much she has. I do know that we dont/cant argue about money (the number one cause of divorce!) and do not have to ask to borrow from the pot to buy each other gifts or go to dinner. We did it wrong for the first 5 years and almost didn't make it, then some sound advise from a friend and I fixed it. No money disputes for the last 14 years :cool2:

Maybe others can handle the stress of "shared" money but not me, doesn't mean I dont love her because I keep a money stash :ne_nau:

I'm with you, we dont share money either. We have our own bank accounts, we divy up the bills in an agreeable way (he pays most of them, haha), and it's great. I can do what I want with my money and vise versa and dont have to ask "permission" to spend as long as our expenses are taken care of and money is put into savings and investments.

Alex · Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 2562 Location: SLC, UT

sparker1 wrote: Forty-five years of experience has taught me one thing: Don't try to advise others on matters of love and marriage. You're on your own.

I think that is the best advice in this thread. To each their own :2thumbs:

proads26 · Joined: 08 Aug 2007 Posts: 17

Ok all you "everything that is said on the internet literally affects real life no matter how sarcastic it may be people out there who are rushing to your local gun emporium right now to buy a needler and a cerebral bore" it turned out to be a $45 dollar refund for a week's worth of health insurance. I couldn't stop laughing when I opened it, I told my old lady "she likes that name by the way" the whole story with the internet poll and everything, and she thought it was hilarious but she would have made me share/save it. Anyway feel free to have a laugh, I guess that's what I get for being selfish ha ha!

Alex · Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 2562 Location: SLC, UT

:lol8: nice one. Well welcome to the Bogley, where we explode any situation into life/death decisions :2thumbs: :five: :roflol: